{"id":10433,"date":"2019-05-16T07:05:55","date_gmt":"2019-05-16T07:05:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.austinshortfilm.com\/blog\/mark-manson-everything-is-fcked-interview-with-tripp-lanier\/"},"modified":"2019-05-16T07:05:55","modified_gmt":"2019-05-16T07:05:55","slug":"mark-manson-everything-is-fcked-interview-with-tripp-lanier","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.austinshortfilm.com\/tech\/mark-manson-everything-is-fcked-interview-with-tripp-lanier\/","title":{"rendered":"Mark Manson &#8211; Everything is F*cked &#8211; Interview with Tripp Lanier"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"480\" height=\"270\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/mJUyZlm7exc\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Why do extraordinary guys get sh*t done while the rest stay stuck? Check out Tripp Lanier\u2019s new micro-course to crush resistance and procrastination here: http:\/\/www.thenewmanpodcast.com\/resistance\/<\/p>\n<p>Subscribe on iTunes: http:\/\/apple.co\/21rcPC4<br \/>\nThe New Man Podcast: http:\/\/thenewmanpodcast.com<br \/>\nTripp Lanier\u2019s site: http:\/\/tripplanier.com<\/p>\n<p>What happens after you make all of your dreams come true?<\/p>\n<p>What if hope is just another form of evil?<\/p>\n<p>And are we making life harder than it needs to be?<\/p>\n<p>Mark Manson sold millions of copies of his last book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, and he\u2019s back with a new one called Everything is F*cked. Today we talk about why he\u2019s out to slaughter our sacred cows, why hope makes us fight one another, and why success tends to make us weak.<\/p>\n<p>In this interview:<br \/>\nWhy selling millions of books created a big problem for Mark Manson<br \/>\n\u201cWhat is happening to our world?\u201d<br \/>\nBeing desperate to hear that everything will be okay<br \/>\nWhy hope creates conflict<br \/>\nWhy everyone is religious to a certain extent<\/p>\n<p>Plus:<br \/>\nWhy we\u2019ll never truly escape pain<br \/>\nWhy we need enemies to unite us<br \/>\nSelf sabotage and why we make life harder than it needs to be<br \/>\nWhy guys get more fragile as they get richer<br \/>\nWhy we don\u2019t have a masculinity problem &#8211; we have a maturity problem<br \/>\nMark\u2019s past issues with women<\/p>\n<p>About Mark Manson<\/p>\n<p>WHO THE HELL ARE YOU AND WHY SHOULD I TAKE YOU SERIOUSLY?<\/p>\n<p>Mark Manson in 2017, just some guy who reads a lot. And don\u2019t take anything I say seriously. Unless you want to, of course. But the point is to think for yourself. If you like some of the things I say, great. If not, that\u2019s fine too.<\/p>\n<p>But, to answer your question, my name is Mark Manson. I\u2019m 33 years old. I grew up in Austin, Texas. Went to school and lived in Boston. Graduated from Boston University in 2007. A couple years later, I started an online business (and the earliest form of this blog) and traveled and lived all over the world for about seven years. Ended up marrying a Brazilian. Now I live in New York City.<\/p>\n<p>SO, WHY DO YOU WRITE ABOUT ALL THIS STUFF?<\/p>\n<p>Most of what I write is written for myself, first and foremost. I don\u2019t share these ideas because I think I\u2019m right and other people are wrong. I write them because I think I\u2019m wrong, and correcting my own misjudgments on a public platform seems to help out a lot of other people in the process.<\/p>\n<p>HOW WOULD YOU SUMMARIZE YOUR PHILOSOPHY?<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re all wrong about everything, some just a little less wrong than others. Everything sucks some of the time, and that\u2019s OK \u2014 happiness is learning how to appreciate the struggles in your life. There are more stars in the universe than grains of sand on the planet, you couldn\u2019t be special even if you wanted to be, so stop trying to prove yourself all the time. Trying to prove something to yourself and others is the root of most misery.<\/p>\n<p>Life is about solving problems. Therefore, learn how to pick good problems. Avoiding problems just makes everything worse.<\/p>\n<p>Human emotions are flawed. Always be skeptical of yourself, no matter what. Let go of your identity, you don\u2019t really know who you are, nor should you. Sex is good. As long as it\u2019s done consciously and for emotionally healthy reasons. So fuck your brains out. Appreciate love, but understand there are things more important than love.<\/p>\n<p>Conflict is inevitable and often necessary. Sometimes things need to be broken before they can be made better.<\/p>\n<p>IT SAYS YOU\u2019RE AN AUTHOR, HAVE YOU WRITTEN A BOOK?<\/p>\n<p>Yes, two, in fact. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life came out in 2016 and has become a big bestseller (NYTimes, Wall Street Journal, etc.). It basically talks about what we choose to find important in life and why it matters. Mainly because life sucks sometimes, and if we don\u2019t care about important things, then we\u2019re going to get steamrolled by all the little things.<\/p>\n<p>I also wrote a dating advice book for men called Models: Attract Women Through Honesty. It was recently revised and updated in 2016 as well.<\/p>\n<p>The New Man Podcast. Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp. Personal development for guys who think self help is for losers. <\/p>\n<p>Entrepreneur, Startup, and Executive Coach Tripp Lanier covers the topics guys are hungry to explore but typically only discuss after a few beers. Each podcast consists of real world, practical advice so guys can rise above mediocrity and live a life of purpose and meaning. <\/p>\n<p>Topics include: relationships, sex, dating, career, money, power, overcoming fear, fitness, inner game, lifestyle design, and spirituality.<\/p>\n<h3>More info on Mark Manson &#8211; Everything is F*cked &#8211; Interview with Tripp Lanier<\/h3>\n<div class=\"ss-local-rss\"><div class=\"rss_header\"><h2><a href=\"https:\/\/cn.bing.com\/news\/search\/?q=Mark+Manson+-+Everything+is+F%2Acked+-+Interview+with+Tripp+Lanier&amp;qft=sortbydate%3D%221%22&amp;format=rss\" rel=\"nofollow\" class=\"rss_title\">Mark Manson - Everything is F*cked - Interview with Tripp Lanier - BingNews<\/a><br \/><span class=\"rss_description\"> Search results<\/span><\/h2><\/div><ul>\n            <li>\t\t\t\t<span class=\"title\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bing.com\/news\/apiclick.aspx?ref=FexRss&amp;aid=&amp;tid=66395ca7f1b84579be4a66c7868b2646&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.dailymail.co.uk%2Fpodcasts%2Fstraight-to-the-comments%2Farticle-13309015%2FStraight-Comments-Katie-Price-Feet-F-cked-Boobs-Fine.html&amp;c=6303594993249083021&amp;mkt=en-us\" rel=\"nofollow\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\tEPISODE 6: Straight to the Comments! - Katie Price: Feet are F*cked, Boobs are Fine\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p>With Archie Manners off sick, this week Josh Pieters is ably assisted by celebrity expert, Jamie East, in challenging a famous face to see if they recognise the MailOnline stories about them ...<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/li>\n            \n            <li>\t\t\t\t<span class=\"title\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bing.com\/news\/apiclick.aspx?ref=FexRss&amp;aid=&amp;tid=66395ca7f1b84579be4a66c7868b2646&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.whufc.com%2Fnews%2Ffabianski-well-give-it-everything-against-bayer-leverkusen&amp;c=559616406705495697&amp;mkt=en-us\" rel=\"nofollow\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\tFabia\u0144ski: We'll give it everything against Bayer Leverkusen\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p>Following a 2-0 defeat in the first leg, \u0141ukasz Fabia\u0144ski is under no illusion as to the task West Ham United face to reach the UEFA Europa League semi-finals at Bayer Leverkusen\u2019s expense on Thursday ...<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/li>\n            \n            <li>\t\t\t\t<span class=\"title\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bing.com\/news\/apiclick.aspx?ref=FexRss&amp;aid=&amp;tid=66395ca7f1b84579be4a66c7868b2646&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.stltoday.com%2Fnews%2Flocal%2Fcrime-courts%2Ftoddler-killed-in-crash-after-man-runs-red-light-in-st-louis-mark-twain-neighborhood%2Farticle_31826234-fd86-11ee-ab7a-d7f6643b85a4.html&amp;c=6762157573112842322&amp;mkt=en-us\" rel=\"nofollow\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\tToddler killed in crash after man runs red light in St. Louis' Mark Twain neighborhood\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t<div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p>ST. 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Check out Tripp Lanier\u2019s new micro-course to crush resistance and procrastination here: http:\/\/www.thenewmanpodcast.com\/resistance\/ Subscribe on iTunes: http:\/\/apple.co\/21rcPC4 The New Man Podcast: http:\/\/thenewmanpodcast.com Tripp Lanier\u2019s site: http:\/\/tripplanier.com What happens after you make all of your dreams come true? 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